Don’t believe what others have to say about you! We must learn what GOD says about us, so that we won’t be quick to accept other’s opinions and value them over our own! and more importantly, value them over God’s! Walk in what God calls you today! Also don’t listen to those evil & discouraging thoughts or memories. Shut them up with the Word Of God! Everyone knows this line from the movie “The Help”… “You is kind. You is smart. You is important.” LOL love God, love yourself, love others!